Hot chat
Anna and Jerry had a phone chat late last night after a series of sex texts that had Annabel already moist between the lips. By the time Jerry called she was ready for his cock, but although he lives 20 mins from us he wasn't able to drop everything and come straight round because he had his kids to look after. Still, it got Anna in the mood for a banging session with me... so much so that she's now a bit worried about whether her pussy might be a little sore tonight. Jerry's promised a "marathon session"...
Report tomorrow!
B
Jerry's coming again
This Saturday night. After a break of a month. We're both beside ourselves with anticipation again...
Off to fuck Annabel now. Can't help myself.
More news soon. And I know I still owe you the details of her first awesome encounter with big J!
Ben
08:54:27 PM
A gift...
Hi all
Oddly enough, this site isn't the only one where we spent surfing time! As I've spent the past hour catching up with some of our favourite other sites, thought I'd share the URLs with you in case you're in need of a little variety...
Good blogs
http://deesjoe.blogspot.com/
http://www.hotwivesonline.com/
http://hotwife-lisa.blogspot.com/
http://cuckoldinglifestyle.blogspot.com/
and our favourite favourite: http://hotwifephenomena.blogspot.com/
Good forums
http://www.ourhotwives.org/forum
http://cuckolds.com/forums/
http://www.ultimatecuckold.net/
Happy surfing. Try to keep your fingers on the mouse and keyboard...
Ben
08:29:13 PM
The meaning of all of this
You can't change the rules of sexual engagement in your marriage without it having some big impacts, and in my last post I promised some reflections on how Annabel's new-found status as a "hotwife" has affected us and our relationship.
Stop reading now if you're hoping for my usual graphic portrayals of Annabel's adventures - more of those another time!
First thing to say is that we haven't really been able to find any really bad effects of "swinging" (if that's what we're doing) on our marriage. I'd be lying if I said that we hadn't both had doubts, before and after we started, but the key to dealing with them has been talk talk talk talk talk. We share all our emotional reactions, good and bad, and every one of those conversations brings us closer. It's been said elsewhere, but don't even think about doing what we're doing unless your existing relationship is rock solid and you're great communicators.
A few days ago I was e-mailing a couple who'd contacted us to comment (nicely!) about our blog. They are still at the fantasy stage - which we went through for months before making it happen - and I told them some of the benefits I perceive of having gone down this road:
"It's added so much to our relationship. We see each other and ourselves in new, valuable ways. I'm now the unpossessive husband who gave Annabel the gift of sexual freedom, the opportunity to carry on experiencing that huge buzz of being with a new guy for the first time. She's the adventurous, sexy woman who shares my life and my bed and who is capable of driving desirable men into a sexual frenzy in my presence. Her post-kiddie self confidence dip is well and truly over. My knowledge of her love for me has been reinforced because she knows she'd never have found another guy like me... The list of good things goes on."
In summary, we love each other and appreciate each other so much more since starting down this road. The bottom line for me in all of this is that the greatest risk to any marriage - in my view - is the risk of taking each other for granted. Not just sexually, but in any way. What I have done for Annabel is shown her that I don't take her for granted as my sexual partner, and that I'm prepared to give her the freedom to fly and return to me. (Trite but relevant musical reference - Sting's "If You Love Somebody Set Them Free") In return, she's recognised in me the life partner she didn't think was possible - a man who is secure enough in his love for her to let her exercise that freedom. And the additional love she has shown me since we started this adventure has made it doubly worthwhile for me.
Emotional moment over.
Next time I write it'll be more verbal pornography to keep 99% of the readers happy! I have in mind to recount Anna's first encounter with her current lover, Jerry. Especially the foreplay, which was quite awesome.
Ben
09:11:13 PM
First threesome!
Hi everyone
I know we haven't posted anything here for a while, and I'm really sorry cos I know that a lot of people were hoping for more details of Anna's meeting with Massive Mike... Time just passed while A and I were getting into each other in such a big way in the wake of our amazing run of early adventures, and I'm afraid that blogging took fourth place to family, work and fucking each other like crazy while re-living Anna's first few extramarital fucks.
But... tonight I have something mega to report and wild horses couldn't keep me away from the keyboard!
Long term readers of our blog will know that the original idea was always that I wanted to give Annabel the gift of sexual freedom, and that the only condition was that I would be able to be there to watch and share her enjoyment of her encounters. We had an early aberration from that rule - for which I found it fairly easy to forgive Anna, and she's totally moved away from any thoughts of repeating it - but aside from that it's all been with me there. And what utterly awesome encounters I've seen. For the benefit of any couples out there who are contemplating getting into this lifestyle, I can honestly say that it's changed our lives. More on the detail of that another time.
The point of setting the scene again is that last night the rules changed again, and for the better in a big way. It was our third encounter with a fantastic guy called Jerry. He's the only one we've seen more than once. Found him through a swingers matching site, against the odds, and we had our first session with him in early August. Huge guy - 6ft5in, heavily built and with a cock in proportion, at least in girth which is Anna's favourite! We've got on really well with him from the first (non sexual) lunch meeting and the sex has also been extraordinary. On the first and second nights with Jerry he invited me a couple of times to join in and fuck Anna whilst she sucked his cock. Each time I declined - it was outside what A and I had agreed to do. She was always concerned that it could interfere with her ability to focus on her lover properly, and I agreed. Last night... well, there was something different in the air. It was our third meeting with Jerry in four weeks. It was late - he texted at 10.30pm to ask if he could come round and give Annabel a night cap! When he texted Anna had my balls in her mouth after a long and relaxing bath, and we were only minutes away from a warm, slow fuck. So I was halfway there when Jerry arrived. As usual he and Anna were kissing deeply, hands all over each other, within moments of his arrival, and a few minutes later they were naked on our bed and exploring each other more deeply. It's been my habit to get my clothes off as soon as the other guy does - just a courtesy really. So there I was, already warmed up, with a massive boner as I watched my wife and her latest lover in advanced foreplay. He went down on her, and I moved in to kiss her and stroke her hair as she groaned and writhed with his tongue probing her delicious pussy. I love kissing her while she's simultaneously being pleasured by a lover - massive turn-on - but usually she likes me to make it quite brief so as not to distract her lover. Last night she didin't seem to want to let me go, until he stopped tonguing her and pulled her up into position to suck his cock. He was standing at the end of the bed, she was sitting on the end of the bed cupping his balls with one hand, gently wanking him with the other and doing lovely things to his cock head with her tongue and lips. While she was doing that in her usual wonderful style, Jerry asked me again if I'd like to fuck Anna while she blew him. This time, without a word, she got up onto all fours on the bed, never letting his cock out of her mouth and presented her beautiful and very wet pussy to me.
*sigh*
How could I possibly refuse?! I was on my knees behind her in a flash, suddenly feeling some of the stage fright that her lovers must feel when they have to perform in front of this incredible woman's rapt husband! I quietly slipped inside her, enjoying the moans that started to emanate from her mouth as she sucked Jerry's cock with increasing enthusiasm. She went fucking wild. She was bucking her hips back at me, rotating them and grinding herself as deep as she could take me, all the while bobbing up and down on Jerry's very excited cock. Frankly, I couldn't believe it was happening at the time, and I'm still not sure it happened now! But it must have done, because we've talked and texted about it all day today...
Back to the story. We have a tall dressing mirror in our bedroom which is well placed for spectating whatever is going on on the bed, and Jerry was encouraging Anna to look at herself impaled at both ends on cocks she adores. Each time she looked up she gave a sharp intake of breath and got straight back down to gobbling Jerry and bucking hard on my shaft. Several times Jerry and I caught each other's eyes and enjoyed moments of shared excitement, arousal and disbelief that the woman we both adore was behaving with such utter abandon and lust.
After probably no more than five minutes I told them that it was Jerry's turn to fuck her, not least because I could see that he was getting very close to losing control and I knew that they would both prefer that he shot his load in her pussy. I pulled out, she gasped, reached back between her legs to find my cock and pull it back in, and whined with disappointment when she found I was already too far away! Jerry took her arms and quickly turned her onto her back then stood between her thighs and plunged into her soaking wet hole with his thick tool. Standing at the other end of her as she lay across the bed, I grabbed her hands and went to work kissing her hard and deeply while she panted in and out of my mouth. It was a gorgeous moment. Then, after only a few seconds, and quite suddenly and briskly, Jerry dropped down onto her, pushing me away, and groaning, "I have to cum!" and started humping her hard. She wrapped her feet around his bum in the way they've learned to love and kicked his buttocks with her heels to urge him on as he pumped and moaned and filled her up with his cum.
We had a fantastic 30 minutes or so in the afterglow, Jerry and I stroking Anna in the ways and places she likes best, and reflecting on how hotwife + lover had unexpectedly turned into MFM threesome. I never expected it to happen, but boy am I glad it did.
Unusually, Anna had not cum with Jerry last night, and I was still pumped up waiting for a release, so by the time he left us at 12.30 Anna and I were busting to fuck again. I had the wonderful privilege of enjoying Jerry's "silky seconds" as I slipped into my amazing wife and went to work on her "magic place" that only my own cock seems to be able to find perfectly. Before very long we were both cumming, shouting and panting in unison - our particular speciality - and marvelling at how our incredible sex life is evolving.
Ben
PS Sorry but have removed all the old pics from Glowfoto because their adult pics terms have changed. Will be happy to send some pics of Anna in action to people who ask nicely and provide an e-mail addy!
10:10:36 PM